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Precious Well Being

ADVICE FROM OLD PEOPLE 1 The most important person in your life is the person who agreed to share their life with you. Treat them as such. 2 You might live a long life, or you might live a short one — who knows. But either way, trust me when I say that you’re going to wish you took better care of yourself in your youth. 3 Stuff is just stuff. Don’t hold onto material objects, hold onto time and experiences instead. 4 Jealousy destroys relationships. Trust your significant other, because who else are you supposed to trust? 5 People always say, “Make sure you get a job doing what you love!” But that isn’t the best advice. The right job is the job you love some days, can tolerate most days, and still pays the bills. Almost nobody has a job they love every day. 6 If you’re getting overwhelmed by life, just return to the immediate present moment and savour all that is beautiful and comforting. Take a deep breath, relax. 7 Years go by in the blink of an eye. Don’t marry young. Live your life
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I stopped

• I wasn't planning   on giving up   what we have,   especially you.   But you pushed me   so hard   that I can no longer    reach your hand.   I tried    to come closer,    but you did not    allow me to enter.   You already threw   the white flag   while I was still   fighting for us.   "𝑰 𝒅𝒊𝒅𝒏'𝒕 𝒈𝒊𝒗𝒆 𝒖𝒑. 𝒀𝒐𝒖 𝒔𝒉𝒖𝒕 𝒎𝒆 𝒐𝒇𝒇, 𝒔𝒐 𝑰 𝒔𝒕𝒐𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒅."
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My Destiny 🤍

Destiny has allowed me to meet someone who has taken a special place in my heart and profoundly affected my life. Being an introvert, it’s unusual for me to chat with other people. But for this person, I’ve tried. We chatted for months and I must admit, his company is way better than my solitude–it doesn’t exhaust me. Together, we shared stories and updates about each other’s life until late at night. There was no dull moment with him as he was so jolly and funny to talk with. He brings out the best in me as he makes me smile and happy effortlessly. I must admit, he’s the epitome of the man I’ve been longing and praying for. But sadly, we separated ways, and everything that’s good about us has just eventually ended. He has never shoot me a message anymore, and as to his reason, I still have no apparent clue. My life since then has become pure dull and mundane. But up until this moment, five months have gone by, a part of me still longs for...
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Self 🩷

Sometimes you will lose interest in things you used to enjoy, not because you don't want them anymore, but because your soul craves silence and inner peace.  It's sometimes better to lie down on your bed and listen to your favorite music or watch your favorite movie alone, away from your phone and all the notifications that bother you from time to time. It's sometimes better to devote your time alone and reflect on what you want to do, why you keep tolerating stagnant routines, and why you keep staying in places where you don't belong. Sometimes you have to pay attention to your body and mind when it tells you to take a break from the outside world, take care of yourself, and rest until you feel like yourself again.  The world does not revolve around your smile, your love for someone, or your excitement; rather, the process includes silence, sadness, and solitude. Take a deep breath and remind yourself that you can comprehend all of this without worrying about what othe
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Leave them 👍

Do you want to know why you're sad.  You're attached to people who have been on and off with you for an extended period of time.  You pay attention to people who only make time for you when it's convenient for them.  You're too caring to people who could care less about you. You give attention to people who take you for granted and put you on the back burner because they think no matter what they do, you will never leave.  Do me a favor and accept people for who they are, & leave them where they belong.
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Learn to say NO sometimes

I want you to know that your kindness is a gift, and that your willingness to share it with everyone you meet shows how sincere your heart is. I do, however, want you to be aware that there are some situations in which you must refuse certain people. You don't need to provide an explanation if you decline something. If you are aware that you are fatigued emotionally, psychologically, and physically, it is acceptable to say no. Even if just temporarily, it's acceptable to put your happiness and personal space first because you need to assess what's wrong with you and why you keep tolerating the same people. It doesn't mean you're a harsh or cruel person; it just means you value yourself enough to avoid anyone or anything that makes you doubt your worth.
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let it go

If you're still in pain and your heart hurts after letting go of someone or something. I just wanted you to know that everything is fine. It simply implies that your feelings were genuine and that you poured your heart and soul into loving someone else. No one likes to see things come to an end, and no one enjoys pain and suffering. However, there are times when we must put things away that once made us happy because they have become harmful to our soul. It's not love if it's destroying you. You are not obligated to remain in toxic situations or relationships that cause you to doubt your own worth. It is preferable to have your heart broken once than to have it broken repeatedly.
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